Before we go to the topic, to get into context….
…let’s see which are the most extreme sports:
1️⃣ Free climbing, also called FREE SOLO.
This is climbing a mountain without harnesses, without any kind of safety anchor.
In other words, you take one false step, and you go to the bottom of the ravine.
2️⃣ In the second division you can find heli-skiing 🚁⛷, skydiving, bungee jumping, tow surfing, base jumping, extreme parcour and some more ….
Well, marriage ❤️🔥 is not far behind….
In my humble opinion… it should be prohibited.
Well
Not forever, but forbidden -at least- until both have known their miseries and darker sides.
Until both of them have seen what’s behind that beautiful facade.
The rust, the damp, the childhood traumas and other flaws.
Then yes
Then let there be a wedding in style.
But before that, why?
If most couples when they really get to know each other discover that this is not what they want nor what they need in their lives!!!!
EVEN SO….when you decide to take the plunge….
CAREFUL ATTENTION NO RUSH!!
What about you?
What do you think? Have you practiced this extreme sport? Are you still in it?
I believe more in the couple. Without papers. That way you reduce some of the traumatic phases and you feel freer to go on. That’s what I think.
Because commitment can’t be bought or sold.
Either there is one or there isn’t.
With or without papers.
Since the beginning of time, there have always been couples… otherwise, we wouldn’t be here.
Look at this one carved in wood in Polynesia, in the antipodes of Europe…
Hug,
Teresa
Pd: The subject is open to much debate… so if you write in the comments, please always respect other ways of looking at it, ok?
